Body and confidence: finding your intimate style ✨

Look at yourself in the mirror. Go on, really look. What do you see? A body you sometimes struggle to love? Insecurities that have been stuck in your mind ever since your aunt said, "you're letting yourself go" at Christmas dinner in 2018? You're not alone, bestie.

Honestly, we all have those little (or big) voices in our heads telling us we should be more this, less that, hairier, less hairy... It's like your body is a WhatsApp group where everyone gives their opinion without being asked.

But you know what? In 2025, we've decided to do a real clean-up. Not the kind of spring cleaning where you just hide everything under the bed. No, the real deal. The one where you free yourself from those standards that have been weighing you down for too long.

So put on your comfiest joggers, make yourself a hot chocolate (or a mojito, no judgment here), and let us show you how to become your own body positive influencer.Promise, by the end of this article, you'll look at your hair (or lack thereof) in a whole new way!

The (not so) secret secrets of confidence 🔓

The day I stopped listening to others

True story: the other day, I was scrolling on Insta and came across Sarah, a girl from my old high school. She posted a photo of herself in a swimsuit, all natural, with the caption "My hair, my choice, your comments go to my spam." Her BFF immediately said, "But what will people think?" Sarah's response? "They'll mind their own business, Karen." QUEEN BEHAVIOR! 👑

And she's not alone! More and more people are ditching the "you have to," "you should," "if I were you" comments. Like that guy on TikTok who proudly shows off his creative hair patterns and responds to haters with even crazier tutorials. Or that woman who started the hashtag #HairAndProud after a date made a remark to her.

My cat, Nugget, also taught me something important (yes, my cat gives life lessons, deal with it). He spends 80% of his day grooming himself, and yet he couldn't care less about what the other neighborhood cats think. The only time he gets stressed is when there's no more kibble. The takeaway? Focus on what really matters.

The revelation: my body, my rules

Real talk: what does "normal" even mean? Wearing Crocs with socks? Putting pineapple on pizza? Making a shopping list and buying everything except what's on it?

The thing is, we've been so bombarded with "standards" that we ended up believing it was the only option. As if there was only one way to be beautiful, only one style approved by the international committee of unsolicited opinion givers.

And then one day, BOOM! You wake up and realize you've had enough.Tired of stressing about your summer body when summer is really about enjoying ice cream? Tired of wondering if your body hair is "socially acceptable" when society itself can't even agree on whether it's called "pain au chocolat" or "chocolatine"? Pro tip: Next time someone tries to tell you how to manage your body, ask them if they also have advice for your tax return. At least that's something with actual rules to follow. Ready for what's next? We're going to talk styles, and trust me, it's going to be more fun than a Netflix marathon! Intimate Styling for Dummies (like us) Quiz: What’s your style? Alright, it’s time for the most intimate personality test of 2025! It’s like those Buzzfeed quizzes that tell you what kind of sandwich you are, but for body hair.

The free spirit 🌸

- Your mood: "Hair in the wind, long live freedom!" - Your motto: "Nature does things well" (except on Monday mornings) - Your hero: Tarzan, but with an iPhone - Your routine: What routine? The free spirit is the one who lets nature express itself like an abstract artist. For you, hair is like plants: it grows on its own and that's just fine.

The meticulous one 💫

- Your mood: "Precision is my passion" - Your motto: "A well-trimmed hair is worth two" - Your hero: Edward Scissorhands (intimate version) - Your routine: More detailed than your savings plan. You're the type to have a ruler and a compass in your bathroom. Every hair has its place, and if one is out of line, you know it.

The Seasonal One 🌡️

- Your mood: "As the weather goes, so does your hair" - Your motto: "Winter is coming... or maybe not" - Your hero: The France 2 weather forecast - Your routine: Changes every three months, just like your wardrobe. You manage your hair like your wardrobe: spring/summer collection, autumn/winter collection. In summer, you’re smoother than a dolphin; in winter, you have more fur than a polar bear.

The Spontaneous One 🎲

- Your mood: "We’ll see tomorrow" - Your motto: "Life is full of surprises" - Your hero: The six-sided die - Your routine: What’s a routine? For you, every day is a new adventure. Sometimes you wake up wanting to be smoother than an egg, sometimes you want to look like Chewbacca. And that’s the beauty of it.

The golden rules (but honestly, there aren’t any)

Rule #1: Do whatever you want

It’s like Netflix: you don’t have to finish a series if you don’t like it. Your hair? Same thing. If today you feel like changing your style, go for it. The only person who gets a vote here is you.

Rule #2: If someone judges, show them rule #1

You know those people who have an opinion about everything? Like the ones who tell you you picked the wrong color socks? Well, it’s the same for hair. If someone makes a comment, remember that their opinion matters as much as the latest TikTok post from a healthy food influencer.

Rule #3: Comfort above all

If there’s one thing we learned from wearing skinny jeans for years, it’s that style is cool, but comfort is better.Your intimate style should make you feel as comfortable as wearing pajamas on a Sunday morning. Pro tip: If you can't decide on your style, close your eyes and picture yourself living your best life. What do you look like? There you go, that's your answer. (If you imagined yourself as a unicorn, we can't help you with that though). Ready for the next step? We're going to talk about how to become the best version of yourself, and spoiler alert: it doesn't involve waking up at 5 a.m. to meditate! 😎

Mission: Become the best version of yourself 🚀

The 2025 Survival Kit

Just like in a good recipe, there are essential ingredients to feel good in your own skin (or not). Here’s your happiness shopping list:

The essentials ⭐

- A trimmer billy: Because even rebels need quality tools.It's like a lightsaber, but for your hair - A touch of humor: It even works in the shower, and it doesn’t take up space in the bathroom - Buddies who couldn’t care less: You know, the ones who say “as long as you’re happy” and really mean it - A mirror that makes you smile: Not one of those magnifying mirrors that show you things even your dermatologist hasn’t seen

The bonuses that make all the difference

- An awesome playlist: Because getting ready in silence is like eating pizza without cheese - Embarrassing photos of your friends: To remind you that everyone has had their “I tried something new” phase - A countdown to your next date: Just to add a little stress...or not!

The "I'm loving my life" moments 🌈

When you realize you're a bombshell

It's that magical moment when you step out of the shower, the steam on the mirror fades away and BAM! You see yourself and think, "Damn, I actually look pretty good." It's like finding money in an old jacket, but even better.

The validations you weren't expecting

- Your date who approves your style without even mentioning it - Your little cousin who says you're "so stylish" in front of the whole family - Your ex who runs into you and makes that "oh damn, he/she looks amazing now" face

The ultimate liberation

You know you've made it when: - You answer "because I felt like it" when people ask why you changed your style - You post a photo without filters (and without stressing for 3 hours) - You give advice to others even though 6 months ago you were still stressing

The secret to loving your body

The warrior's routine

- In the morning: Quick check in the mirror + smile (even if you look like a tired panda) - During the day: Remember that we’re not on Insta, real life doesn’t have filters - In the evening: Self-care session with your trimmer billy (or not, it’s up to you) Pro tip: If you’re unsure about your style, ask yourself if it makes you feel like a perfectly wrapped burrito: comfortable and ready to conquer the world.If so, then you're doing it right!

The mantras that make you feel good

- "My body, my rules, your comments go to my spam" - "I'm not a work of art, I'm a work in progress" - "The only hair that matters is the one that makes me feel good" Ready to see how to handle awkward moments? Because yes, there will be some (but we promise, we'll laugh about it)! 😎

The struggles we've all experienced (and how not to care)🎢

Awkward situations

The pool moment🏊‍♂️

We all know that moment. You arrive at the pool, take off your t-shirt and... someone stares at your hair as if you were a modern art exhibit.Options : - The passive-aggressive response: "I know, it's a limited edition" - The direct approach: "Want a photo? It lasts longer" - The pro method: *Does laps like a majestic mermaid*

The awkward conversation with your roommate 🏠

- Them: "Uh...Sure! Here is the professional English translation, maintaining all HTML elements in their original positions: t'as changé quelque chose ?" - You: "Yeah, I’ve realigned my hair chakras" - Them: *Confused silence* - You: *Keep sipping your coffee like a boss*

The meeting that goes off the rails 💘

- Scene 1: The moment they try to give their "unsolicited opinion" - Scene 2: You responding with more sass than an entire season of RuPaul's Drag Race - Scene 3: The waiter arrives with dessert and saves (or not) the situation

How to handle it like a boss 😎

The guide to "I don’t care, but make it stylish"

- Level 1: The enigmatic smile - Level 2: The Rock-style eyebrow raise - Level 3: The "Oh, you noticed? It's my new spring/summer collection" - Final boss level: The "Thanks for your opinion, I'll file it with all the other things I don't care about"

The "it's not a bug, it's a feature" technique

When someone points out something that's "not the norm": - "Yes, it's asymmetrical."Like my soul." - "It's not messy, it's artistically chaotic." - "I'm setting the trends for 2025, you'll understand later."

The subtle art of answering indiscreet questions

- Question: "But why do you..." - Answer: "Interesting question. Why are you asking indiscreet questions?" Pro tips for handling any situation: 1. Remember that embarrassment is like yogurt: it has an expiration date 2. If someone stares at you for too long, ask if they also want your opinion on their haircut 3. Keep in mind that in 10 years, it will make a funny story to tell

The express survival kit

- A pair of headphones (to ignore comments with music) - Prepared responses (like UNO cards, always ready) - A friend.on WhatsApp (to debrief the WTF moments) - A dose of self-deprecation (your best ally) Remember: If someone makes you feel uncomfortable about your body, remember that Beyoncé has hair too. She doesn't care, and she runs the world. Be like Beyoncé. 👑 Ready.And for the conclusion? Spoiler: there might be a plot twist (or not)! 😎

Confidence, your new superpower 💫

The recap of things to remember (or not)

Well, we've reached the end of our hair TED Talk, and honestly? If you haven't remembered anything we've said so far, just remember this:

The real facts of life

- The only opinion that matters about your body is yours (and maybe your cat's, but they're already judging you 24/7 anyway) - There's no such thing as "normal" in 2025, just people enjoying their lives - If someone judges you for your hair, remember they probably have an embarrassing TikTok account

 

Epic FAQ

"But what if no one likes my style?" 🤔

You know who else people didn’t like at first? - Crocs (now there are even Balenciaga versions) - Tattoos (now even your grandma has one) - Ketchup on pasta (okay, that one is still controversial)

"How do I know if it suits me?" 🎯

- If you love it = it suits you - If you don’t = change it - If you’re unsure = flip a coin (or ask your cat)

"And what if I change my mind?" 🔄

Fun fact: you’re not a smartphone stuck on iOS 3.You can make all the updates you want! - Natural style today - Minimalist style tomorrow - Next week... who knows? Maybe a QR code (no judgment here)

 

The final words (we promise, then we’ll leave you be) 🎤

Your champion’s checklist

- ✅ Own your style like it’s a Gucci collection - ✅ Ignore unsolicited opinions like you ignore Monday mornings - ✅ Always keep your trimmer billy fully charged (just in case inspiration strikes) Ultimate pro tip: Next time you look in the mirror, act like you’re your biggest fan. Seriously. Hype yourself up like you just won Secret Story (but even better).

One for the road...

If someone makes a comment, just remember: dolphins don’t have hair and they’re doing just fine in life.You too can be a dolphin (metaphorically speaking, of course—let’s not get carried away).

PS: Before you go... 🎁

Welcome officially to the #BillyFamily! It’s like the Avengers, but hairier (or not, it’s your choice). Here, the only rules are: 1. There are no rules 2. Except don’t run with the trimmer (that’s sacred) 3. Just enjoy life, plain and simple

See you soon for more hairy adventures! 🚀

Signed: Your buddy who believes talking about hair is as normal as wearing socks with sandals (actually, maybe not…).

*Plot twist: if you’ve read this far, you’re already more confident than 99% of people. True story.*