The Big Question Everyone Is Asking
We've all been there: a date planned, and that question running through our heads... "Should I shave?" Spoiler alert: there's no right or wrong answer, but we're going to help you make the best choice for YOU.
First, let's calm things down.
Myths to Forget
- "It must be perfectly smooth."
- "It's mandatory before a date."
- "People expect this."
Reality in 2025
- 75% of French people maintain their games
- But only 24% opt for a full shave
- Mentalities are evolving towards more naturalness
Myths to Clear Up Quickly
"You have to be perfectly smooth for a date." Uh, no. That's like saying you have to wear heels or a suit. The truth is, what matters is feeling good about yourself. And obviously, your choices should also boost your confidence; it's one of the most important points for a successful date.
"Everyone is waxing completely." Fake news! Statistics show that by 2025, only 24% of people will opt for a full shave. The rest? They choose different styles according to their preferences.
"It's what people expect." Plot twist: According to recent studies, most people would rather see a few well-groomed hairs than unsightly irritations and ingrown hairs.
Reality in 2025
Mentalities have changed a lot. Today, 75% of French people maintain their games, yes, but each in their own way. The most important thing? People are becoming more open-minded and understand that there is no "right way" to do things.
Better yet: 56% of people are considering stopping bikini waxing altogether. Why? Because we're finally realizing that natural can be sexy, and most importantly, that our comfort takes precedence over imposed standards (well, it's probably also a matter of pain and wallet, let's not kid ourselves, waxing costs an arm and a leg).
A Question of Timing and Common Sense
If you do decide to do a little maintenance before your date (which is totally your right!), remember to do it 2-3 days before if you want to use a bladed razor. Why?
- Your skin will have time to recover
- Minor post-shaving irritations will be gone
- The regrowth will not yet be bothersome (there will be a few maybe a few millimeters and so what?)
- You will avoid last-minute stress and everything that goes with it (risk of power cuts, etc.)
If you want to get waxed, you can do it the same day or the day before (as long as you find an appointment with your favorite beautician).
If you use a Billy trimmer, you can leave it to the last minute or almost. There's no risk of irritation, cuts, or ingrown hairs, so you can go ahead and do it with peace of mind.
But above all, remember: if the person you're seeing judges you based on your intimate hair, it might be a sign that they're not the right person. In 2025, respecting personal choices is key!
Your Pubic Hair Options
Here are the different options and their implications.
The “Natural Maintained” Option
What if we talked about the most underrated option? Maintaining a natural look in 2025 is becoming an increasingly popular choice.
What is it? It's letting yourself have hair. It's there for a biological reason, but we don't leave an equatorial forest underneath. We cut it to a certain length, so it stays clean, natural, and pleasant.
Why choose natural maintenance? Because we finally realize that:
- It's healthier for your skin
- You avoid all the unpleasantness of shaving too close
- It's much less restrictive
- And yes, it's sexy too!
So before your date, a little light maintenance: just shorten it a little or even it out, just to be comfortable. The idea is to find YOUR style, the one you feel good in (with Billy you have the choice between 3mm, 6mm, 9mm or 12mm, you'll find a style you like).
The Timing Question: The Real Issues
Let's talk strategy. If you choose to maintain your body hair, timing is everything:
Too soon before the date
- The hair has time to grow back properly
- You might have that "uncomfortable" phase.
- You may have to do another interview.
Too late (like the day before)
- Risk of irritation
- Small, not very glamorous red spots
- Unnecessary stress
Perfect timing (2-3 days before)
- The skin is soothed
- The regrowth is not yet bothersome
- You are calm for your appointment
Perfect Timing (Billy Only)
With your Billy, it's whenever you want. Even at the last minute if you forgot earlier, you won't risk irritation or red spots, so no stress. And since the ceramic blade cuts super fast and precisely, you can even go for it if it's a complete jungle.
The Practical Maintenance Guide (if you don't have a billy)
If you decide to take action, here's how to do it right:
The Preparation
- Take a hot shower (it relaxes the hair)
- Gently exfoliates the area (bye bye ingrown hairs)
- Use the right tools
During the Interview
- Take your time
- Go with the grain
- Do not force sensitive areas
- Keep a comfortable length (3-6mm is often ideal)
Post-Interview Care
- Rinse with lukewarm water
- Dries gently
- Apply a soothing cream
- Avoid tight clothing in the hours following
The Practical Guide to Maintenance (with a billy)
If you have a Billy, things will be much simpler:
The Preparation
- Take a hot shower (it will relax you) and trim your hair to the desired length (yes, you can shave in the shower with your billy).
- OR don't take a shower and just shave dry with the billy
Post-Interview Care
- You can rinse or wipe the area to remove any remaining small hairs
- Dries gently
- Apply a soothing or moisturizing cream if you wish, but it is not mandatory because your skin will not have been attacked like with a razor blade.
- Wear whatever you want, you should feel absolutely no discomfort
The Most Important
Remember that the person you like should appreciate you for who you are, not for your body hair. Intimate body hair is like everything else in a relationship or relationship; it's a topic that should be discussed calmly and relaxed. However, in the end, everyone does what's right for them!
The 2025 trend is clear: authenticity and naturalness are more valued than ever. So treat yourself, choose the option that suits YOU, and above all, embrace it with pride!
Your Wellness Routine, Without the Hassle
Before we get technical, let's lay the groundwork: your well-being comes first. In 2025, we finally understand that the most important thing isn't meeting other people's standards, but feeling good about yourself.
The Preparation That Changes Everything
Choose Your Comfort Zone
We're not all made the same, and that's a good thing! Do you feel better with 3mm? Go. Do you prefer 6mm? Perfect. Do you like it natural? Great. The important thing is to find YOUR comfortable length, the one that makes you feel good when you look in the mirror.
Quick tip: Try out different lengths when you don't have a date planned. That way, when the big day rolls around, you'll know exactly what looks best on you.
Time, Your Best Ally
You know what often ruins the experience? Rushing. Take your time:
- To choose the right moment
- To prepare your skin
- For the interview itself
- For aftercare
It's like a little self-care session. Put on some music, take a hot shower, and take it easy.
Care that Makes a Difference
Your skin deserves love! The right skincare is the key to:
- Avoid irritation
- Keep skin soft
- Prevent ingrown hairs
- Feeling fresh and confident
The Most Important: Your State of Mind
Take responsibility for your choices
In 2025, the real trend is to be yourself. Gone are the days when we all had to look like Photoshopped magazine models. Today, what's sexy is owning your choices.
Stay True to Yourself
Don't change your habits just for a date. If you feel good naturally, stay natural. If you prefer to maintain, do it. But do it for YOU, not for others.
Pressure? I Don't Know
You know what? Most people are way too busy stressing about their own bodies to judge yours. So relax! No one's going to pull out a magnifying glass to inspect your body hair (but it would make a great date story).
In Conclusion: Your Hair, Your Body, Your Period
The real revolution of 2025? It's understanding that authenticity is the new sexy. Self-confidence doesn't come from perfectly smooth skin or a particular style. It comes from accepting who you are and your choices.
What if someone makes you feel bad about your intimate choices? You're not the problem, they are. In 2025, judging other people's body choices is so... 2012!
So have fun, find your style, and above all: send anyone who tries to make you doubt your choices packing. Life is too short to bother with people who don't respect you for who you are.
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